2nd Monday in October and I feel a lot of pressure. Summer has ended, Fall tasks should be in full gear and the end of year is near, sorry for the rhythm, I was hoping it would cheer me up. I’m already behind on my October to do list, but there are happy roads ahead. For one it is the start of a new week and I WILL make progress on that to do list. My busy busy weekend is behind me, I won an eBay auction and got my oldest his preferred costume for Halloween and I now can fully concentrate on my up coming Nia White Belt Training, now that is some good news!!! Is something standing in your way to making your next big goal?
- How often have you heard your own generation or the generation that came before you talk about when they were young they’d run out the front door and not come home until the street lights came on? I was at a wedding this weekend and that was a big topic at our table. Yes they were remembering an easier time but it got me thinking a very sad thought…that first child who was hurt, those first parents that got the bad news their child was taken. How brave those early parents were to speak out and help change the tide and those parents that learned from previous parents. Our children now lead a much sheltered life early on, from the car seat to back yard play time. I’m mentally thanking all those parents who have helped to make all our children safer.
- Why is popular not always better? You’d think if something was popular it would be quality, the best and most everyone would want some. For example: the most popular fiction is not always the best written work. The most bought burger (McDonald’s most likely) is definitely not the best tasting. The most popular music can be pretty awful, not only in the talent of the singer but also in the quality of the music. My husband has told me that the majority of the most famous tunes have 3 or less cords and it’s almost always the same 3 cords in every song. I don’t even want to get started on the most popular kids in school, we almost all know they are not always the nicest of people. But in more ways than one the most popular can reach the masses and become their fav as well. So that is probably all it is, being popular means more people know about it and if more people know about it more people will love it…so if more people found your most favorite thing it could potential become the next pop thing of the moment? Oh boy, protect your favorite thing, don’t tell a soul 😉 In my book some of the most popular things are pretty great, but what is even better yet is when that popular thing leads me to not so popular things that I love even more. I know so many folks who wont admit they like popular things. Like admitting you love Twilight is the equivalent to bad taste in books/movies. Will you admit to your pop favorites? Evan Rachel Wood recently admitted to loving Justin Bieber, so come on don’t be embarrassed, tell us what you love.
- I need to find some critique partners for my book. I’ve written close to 50,000 words and no one has read it but me, not good. I’ve found the first writing group that I want to ask if I can join. I’m so nervous, I had thought my first rejections would come from a publisher, but I fear I will get my first this week from my peers, double eek. Of course I need to be brave, if this group isn’t for me I will just keep looking, there should be a group out there somewhere that is right for me and I wont find it until I start putting myself out there, goodness I sound like I’m about to join an online dating service 😉
- Today is a huge day in Michigan sports . Tigers game 2 I hate to say but is a MUST win and Lions playing Monday night Football, oh boy oh boy!! Say a little prayer for my boys please, pretty please
Come back on Wednesday when I find out if my weekend away killed my weight loss goal for the week or not, triple eek, no, I’m not nervous 😉
October has begun and fall is most definitely here. We’ve entered that last 3 months of 2o11. What are we going to do with these last three months? I’m certainly not going to start thinking about next year’s New Years resolutions, I’m still working on this years.
Here I go, the 4th weekly random thoughts…
- eBooks, the good, the amazing and the ugly:
- The good: I love ebooks, being able to search, download and start reading in just a few minutes has my book lovin heart still giddy.
- The amazing: Even better yet is the entrance of the self published authors. The publishing houses of ole, man you’ve really got to wonder how many great books we never knew about because they passed on them. Sure some self published works are not so good (some of them need editors pretty badly) and many are much shorter than 300 pages, but there is a lot of really great stuff out there. Not to mention there are so many self published authors making any where from $500 to $1,000 ro more a month selling their own books, not bad!! Makes a girl like me wonder what will become of my own first book, when it is done…
- The ugly: just like the early days of iTunes had its Napsters and all the stolen music, now with ebooks pirate sites are popping up constantly. These cruel sites offer you a place to steal a book. Sure there are some authors out there that wont miss some of their royalties, but what about the many authors who need the money from every sale. I’ve read authors can see these pirate sites as a reason to stop publishing their work, is it’s their only way to stop the stealing, not to mention they can not support their family if pirate sites are allowed to continue. Sure they’d still write but we, the masses, would never know what happens to some of our most beloved characters. Urrrggg!!!! Down with the pirates and thieves!!!
- Long term storage, useful or waste of space?
- 1/4 of my basement is pure storage. Every free nook of free space has been filled with something. Some containers hold things we get to a few times a year: Holiday supplies and party supplies etc. Some shelves hold items bought in bulk, paper towel, toilet paper, cereal, juice, crackers etc.
- What about the things you are storing that you will never use again, in fact we may only look at a few times in a decade. Mementos from our childhood, my wedding dress, etc. Ok these hold so much sentimental value I just can’t get rid of them. At least my childhood memories are now in one bankers box and not filling a whole trunk. But the books you’ll never read again and the recipe books that you have never found anything in or…
- Finally I think about the boxes and bins I have holding old clothes that someday I hope to fit into again. I had actually forgotten how much stuff I’ve saved. Just last winter I was thinking I should get rid of it all, since it didn’t look like the weight was every going to come off. Well I’ve written here just recently that I need to go clothes shopping, well I did, in my basement. So glad I kept all that stuff, see more on this in the next bullet.
- Lots of stuff we store comes to good use, but what about the stuff that we don’t need to hold onto. Why do we need to keep it? Why do we hold onto material things the same way we hold onto past failures. Let it go and learn from it, it’s time to move on.
- Clothing size charts
- Hot button issue for many women for sure!!! In fact a huge part of my original goal was in part to be once again a certain size. One of the reasons I’ve waited to buy new clothes was because according to size charts from my usual haunts I do not yet fit in the next size down.
- Yesterday I tried on a pair of size 12 corduroys from my closet. I expected them to be big, because all of the size 12 pants in my closet are big on me right now. But my goodness, it was ridiculous, at least 4 inches of extra space at the waist, they just fell down.
- I dug into my storage boxes to see if I saved any size 10 pants. I found one pair and 3 pairs of size 12 jeans. Hmmm, I’ve been wearing size 12, even before I started working out, why had I put them in storage. I tried them on and they fit great, not snug, just comfy.
- Right now in my closet I have pants size 12 and 10 that fit the same, not to mention the size 8 I tried on last week at the mall that fit just as well. My goodness, I know we are getting bigger as a country and clothing houses are trying to keep us happy when we go clothes shoping but this is ridiculous. When it comes to our bodies, we just need the truth.
- Oh and I was reminded cruelly yesterday that many of my favorite shirts from 5-10 years ago I will never wear again, not because of my weight or moth holes, but because it is clear we now wear our shirts longer. My old shirts look so short, so silly!!
- The Lions the Tigers, Michigan sports oh my!!!
- The Tigers have tied the series against the Yankees by winning game two at Yankee Stadium. Now on to two home games. Let that winning spirit soar!!
- The Lions are 4-0, who would have guessed, I’m sad to say not me. I think Head Coach Jim Schwartz said it best in regards to yesterdays game: “It wasn’t pretty, but it was beautiful.” . The fact that we have had two come from behind wins this seasons is a little scary but lets face it, it’s exciting. Our defence is deep, our QB Stafford is just beginning to touch his potential and don’t get me started on our receivers, magic fingers!!
- It’s an exciting time to be a Detroit sports fan, no mater what happens in the next 3 days/4 months, I’m going to remember this week!!
In an attempt to clear my head for a new week I’m going to try out a new weekly posting, called “Random thoughts Monday.” We’ll see how it goes.
- A normal Gambling man: in talking with one of my husband’s clients yesterday, who had just gotten back from winning over $100 at a poker tournament, I got to thinking. Are there men out there who go to poker tournaments 5-days a week? Men who consistently make $100 or more a day and bring it all home to a family? I know my husband, who is a musician, makes almost all his money playing gigs. Gigs where he rarely drinks, doesn’t do drugs and his paycheck is automatically deposited. He’s such a normal guy, but most would never guess that (unless they had met him once) and would assume he’s the stereo-type for a rock-n-roll musician. So are there family men out there who actually support their family via poker?
- Organization Intervention: how did I ever get anything done when I worked 50-60 hours a week in an office. Some how I did, but not now. Sure I still work part-time (all these hours are at home, telecommuting is the best invention!!) and I’m taking care of two kids, but it’s so hard for me to keep the house clean, get the laundry done, food on the table/keep food in the house and the zillion of other things you do each week to keep a house moving. But I have a to do list that grows and never lengthens. I’m a certified project manager (PMP) and proud of it, you’d think I’d be able to use some of my skills and get moving on my list. But no, it never happens. Well PMP, it’s time to get to work. First things first, lets get all the special to-dos (i.e. things that are not normally done daily/weekly) onto one list. That’s it, just make a list…see you next week.
- When’s the book going to be done?: hmmm, I remember my original plan which had my books first draft getting finished in June 2011. Well I’m sure fitting into the stereo-typical author profile, I barely wrote this summer. Maybe 2,000 words all summer. I’m happy to report I got over 1,000 words down today and tomorrow I’m going to write some more. I need to get back into the habbit of working on my book and come up with a daily or weekly goal that puts me on the right path to getting all my first thoughts down. I need them out of head!!! Do you have a side goal or hobby that you have not worked on lately?
- Remembering 9/11: it’s always hard to think of all those that were lost ten years ago, but yesterday’s memorials were especially moving. It is comforting to know they will never be forgotten and we will always come together to remember them. Did you think yesterday where you were ten years ago? I was at the dentist. Having no cavities would have filled my day with joy, but that was forgotten, as my heart cried for all those living in H E double hockey sticks. I thought of you yesterday and today and in all my years to come.
Is there a spot in your home that is so disorganized that every time you look at it or try to open that drawer you get stressed? Well I don’t have one, I have several. The worst by far is the Lazy Susan Turntable that holds all my baking supplies and small kitchen appliances. Every time I turn it things fall or block it from turning, so frustrating. Today I will take everything out, sort (there must be things I can get rid of), clean and put everything back in an orderly fashion. I’m actually looking forward to this task.
On a workout note, I finally got two new workouts. Yesterday I did Jillian Michaels: No More Trouble Zones and yes I’m feeling it today. It’s going to be some time before I can complete the whole workout without modifying it. Although it was tough, it was really good to workout my muscles in a new way and push myself. Have you pushed yourself in your workouts recently? Have you been doing the movement the same way for a while? Is there one part of your workout where you modify the movement? Try and un-modify one section and see how you feel, you may be surprised at what you can handle.